I really don't understand it. Your supposed to find this "one" person who is completely right for you in every way. A person who you devote the rest of your life to. Supposed to be your best friend. I really don't understand this at all. So my soulmate is exclusively in the united states and lives conviniently in Rochester NY....unless i move and find someone wherever i go? Or maybe she is from another state, or country? i say the numbers are too great.
I think the vast majority of "love" is infatuation. Why the hell do you think that over 50% of all marriages end in divorce! Infatuation. People cannot deal with other peoples problems. Granted some people do it. Hoorah for them! But for us single bitter lifeforms... It just seems too far fetched.
"Well ya see here son, you have to MAKE love work. It's a task umungst itself." BS!! Love is supposed to be natural. You can't MAKE love work. If she doesn;t love you, there's not MAKING her love you again. No matter how many chocolate covered roses you pile onto her bed. people are just too damn selfish these days. You don't ask them for a single thing. You don't complain about them. Your completely content. But as soon as you change one thing about yourself to help yourself out, the blame and the " you did this, and i'm hurt" happens. Well damnit, what about me? You say you don't do it on purpose, and they agree. You ask what to do about it? they say stop doing it. What about the other side. maybe they should not be so sensitive about everything, and realize ( since they already admitted it to you after the argument) that you didn't do it on purpose! Hmmm...what a concept. How many times can you say sorry and that you didn't mean to hurt them until the other person realizes that they are just too sensitive. If it's always something different, gotta asses whats really going on. but in general, there's no reversing it.
But just right now, i don't understand it. You meet someone you will do anything for. Someone you feel you can spend the rest of your life with. then they say " this is too perfect, or i'm not ready yet." So they go off into the abiss of wife beaters, cheaters and assholes. No hope. I guess i have to wait and be proven wrong. Though, it's just my opinion at this moment.
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I love the last part of what Quinn wrote and i agree 100% in what he says. Don't try to figure out, it will just give you more headhaches. If she is to come, she will. But you have to expect nothing, you have to live happy with yourself first.
But as i once told you, thinking doesn't hurt, you can keep thinking about this and whatever you want as long as you don't worry about it. You know what i mean.
On a more personal way i wanted to remark the words you said. You meet someone you will do anything for. Someone you feel you can spend the rest of your life with. then they say " this is too perfect, or i'm not ready yet
You know how it feels.
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